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  • A Trip to Bali with My Mother | The Beach Club Dream Postponed, but Mom Floored the Jet Ski

    A Trip to Bali with My Mother | The Beach Club Dream Postponed, but Mom Floored the Jet Ski

    Bali is a paradise where travelers from Asia and Oceania gather. Close to Australia, it draws surfers and resort lovers from all over the world.

    Partying with friends at a beach club. That was the dream I carried with me to Bali. But this time, for some reason, I was traveling with my mother. The nightlife I’d dreamed of was put on hold, but in its place I witnessed something unforgettable.


    Bali, the Crossroads of Asia and Oceania

    Bali draws a huge number of travelers from Asia and Oceania, partly thanks to its proximity to Australia.

    Resort hotels, diving, surfing, and a vibrant club scene. Every way of traveling is here. The Kuta area in particular has a huge concentration of clubs and a thriving nightlife.

    What’s interesting is that, unlike mainland Indonesia, Bali is predominantly Hindu. Perhaps that’s why the island feels relatively relaxed about alcohol. Within a country where Islam is the majority, Bali holds onto its own distinct “Balinese Hinduism,” deeply rooted in daily life.

    photo by Guillaume Marques on Unsplash

    What to Do Before You Leave (2026 Update)

    Before getting carried away, Bali now requires a few things to be arranged before arrival. To avoid airport queues, it’s best to complete everything online in advance.

    Things to prepare in advance
    └ Bali Tourist Tax
      About USD 10 per person
      Pay by credit card in advance via the
      official "Love Bali" app or site, get a QR code
    └ Visa on Arrival (e-VOA)
      About USD 35, 30-day stay (extendable once)
      Getting it in advance lets you use
      the airport e-gates
    └ All Indonesia e-Arrival Card
      Register online from 72 hours before arrival

    The rules are more developed than when I went, so check the latest information and prepare ahead.


    Access: 2.5 Hours from Singapore

    From Singapore
    └ Direct flights from Changi Airport
    └ About 2.5 hours
    └ Popular as a weekend short trip
    
    From other Asian cities
    └ Direct flights or budget carriers
    └ Around 7 hours

    If you’re touring Southeast Asia, it’s easy to slot in as a detour from Singapore.


    The Beach Club Dream, Postponed

    When you think of Bali, you think of beach clubs. To gather with friends, a whole group of us, and party to our hearts’ content. I’d held onto that dream for a long time.

    But this time, for some reason, I was on a two-person trip with my mother.

    I obviously couldn’t dance until dawn at a beach club with my mom, so the nightlife I’d dreamed of was postponed. That’s homework for next time.

    Places like Potato Head Beach Club in Seminyak and FINNS Beach Club in Canggu are famous worldwide. Sipping drinks on a poolside daybed while a DJ plays and the sun sets is apparently the classic style. Someday I will let loose at one of those beach clubs with my friends.

    photo by Cassie Gallegos on Unsplash

    Mom Floored the Jet Ski and Left Me Stunned

    I gave up on the nightlife, but I could enjoy water sports with my mother.

    We each rented a jet ski, and this is where the incident happened.

    When I sped up, the jet ski bounced over the water and scared me, so I couldn’t really open the throttle. But when I glanced over, my mother was tearing across the water at incredible speed, bouncing wildly the whole way.

    I was genuinely stunned. My normally gentle mother had transformed into a different person, racing across the sea. Seeing an unexpected side of a parent might just be one of the great joys of travel.


    My Surfing Ended with Just Paddling

    Bali is a world-famous surf destination. Since I was there, I rented a board and gave surfing a try.

    I’ll be honest. I’ve tried surfing a few times before. But I have never once managed to stand up when a wave came.

    This day was no different. I spent the whole time just paddling, bobbing around on top of the water. There was zero sign of me ever standing.

    So in the end, I laid the surfboard down on the beach and settled for just looking the part of a surfer. I think I pulled it off reasonably well.

    That said, as a world-class surf spot, Bali has plenty of beginner-friendly waves, and there were many people enjoying surfing. I think even beginners like me can have fun here. There are lots of surf schools too, so with proper lessons, you’d surely manage to stand up.


    An Island with Completely Different Faces by Area

    Bali shows a completely different character depending on the area. The key is choosing where to stay based on your purpose.

    Main area characteristics
    └ Kuta
      Lively surfer town near the airport
    └ Seminyak
      Stylish cafes and upscale beach clubs
    └ Ubud
      Inland village of art and culture,
      rice terraces and yoga
    └ Canggu
      The hottest surf-and-cafe town right now
    └ Sanur
      Calm east coast, family-friendly
    └ Nusa Dua
      Government-developed luxury resort area
    photo by Geio Tischler on Unsplash

    Luxury Resorts at Surprisingly Good Prices

    Bali has a wealth of luxury resort hotels. They’re concentrated mostly along the coast, but high-end villas are also scattered in quiet spots like Ubud where you can see rice terraces.

    This time I stayed at a coastal resort hotel. What surprised me was how reasonable the prices were for a luxury resort. For the same quality, Bali is clearly cheaper than other resort destinations.

    Accommodation guide (USD)
    └ Budget: USD 10-30/night
    └ Mid-range: USD 50-150/night
    └ Luxury: from USD 250/night

    Thanks to that, I could indulge in a relaxed, luxurious resort experience. Bali is an excellent resort destination in terms of value for money too.

    photo by Ern Gan on Unsplash

    Diving with Manta Rays

    I skipped it this time, but Bali is also famous for diving.

    There are even spots where you can encounter manta rays. Nusa Penida (where you can meet mantas) and Tulamben in the east (with a famous shipwreck dive) are especially renowned. As a diving enthusiast, I really wanted to, but since this was a trip with my mother, I passed this time. That’s more homework for next time.


    Plenty of Delicious Food

    The food in Bali is wonderfully varied.

    Recommended dishes
    └ Nasi Goreng (Indonesian fried rice)
    └ Babi Guling (roast suckling pig,
      a festive dish)
    └ Sate (grilled skewers with peanut sauce)
    └ Ubud and Canggu are packed with
      world-class vegan cafes

    From the classic nasi goreng to fresh seafood, you can find anything. As a resort destination, there are also many restaurants serving international cuisine, so I never struggled to find something to eat.


    Culture and Cautions Worth Knowing

    Bali's unique culture
    └ Canang
      Small palm-leaf offerings placed on
      roadsides and shopfronts; take care not
      to step on them
    └ Nyepi (Balinese New Year, around March)
      Fire, electricity and going outside are
      banned, even the airport closes
      The whole island falls silent
    
    Cautions
    └ Use Grab or Gojek for safe transport
    └ Many accidents happen renting bikes
      without an international license; ride carefully
    └ Tap water is not drinkable
    └ Using your phone while walking in busy
      areas makes you a target for bag snatchers

    Best Season

    Dry season (April-October)
    └ Best season
    └ Low humidity, crisp air
    └ Ideal for surfing and sightseeing
    
    Rainy season (November-March)
    └ Mostly short squalls
    └ Fruit is delicious
    └ Flights and hotels are cheaper
    photo by Tom Bixler on Unsplash

    Final Thoughts

    My trip to Bali, which turned into a two-person journey with my mother, may have postponed the beach club dream, but it became an unforgettable trip all the same.

    My mother flooring the jet ski, settling for just looking like a surfer on the beach, the reasonably priced luxury resort. All of it is a good memory now.

    Bali is a deep, versatile island where you can enjoy resorts, surfing, diving, and nightlife alike. Next time I’ll definitely party with friends at a beach club and swim with manta rays. This trip gave me those goals too.

    Solo, with friends, or as a trip to treat a parent. The fact that it works in any style is, I think, the real charm of Bali.